Penny Flame's Expert Guide to Hand Jobs (Male or Female)
Hand jobs might be the most overlooked sexual activity ever – at least by couples. Some people think it’s something they can do to themselves, so why bother doing it with a partner? Others may equate sex with some form of genital insertion like intercourse or oral.
However, hand jobs can be fun, they can be foreplay and they can be extremely pleasurable. That is the main message of the instructional DVD, which features adult film star Penny Flame giving tips, tricks and techniques to give your partner the best hand job ever.
After Penny’s introduced by some of her male co-stars, she leads a workshop demonstrating hand job techniques on live models in front of an audience. She’s very confident and experienced as she goes over the basics of male and female anatomy. First up is Harmony, the female model. Penny goes over the female erogenous zones, shows several kinds of clitoral stimulation techniques and other finger and hand skills to get a woman aroused.
Next up is Justice, who gets the benefit of Penny’s magic hands on his ample penis and balls. She demonstrates some incredible techniques that involve 1 hand, 2 hands, different motions and stimulating parts of the male anatomy that are sometimes forgotten about, like the perineum area that is between the balls and the anus opening.
The most important information gleaned from these workshops? Make sure your hands are clean and your nails trimmed. And use lube – lots of it – no matter if it is a woman or a man you are pleasuring. I had never thought of using lube on a woman before (not that I regularly think about giving women hand jobs or anything like that) because we self-lubricate when we get aroused, and unlike intercourse, the penetration is not as deep or intense. But I know now that lube makes everything better. Thank you Penny!
The next part of the DVD features 3 full sex scenes that include a significant amount of time focusing on the use of the digits. In the first segment, only manual stimulation is featured, as is an uncircumcised man. Anatomical differences between cut and uncut guys are dealt with by Penny in her workshop. As well, the lucky guy gets his penis stimulated by the woman’s feet, demonstrating yet another level to which non-penetrative sex can be taken.
With the second couple, cunnilingus is used to stimulate the woman, in addition to hands. After she climaxes, she goes to work on the man, using her hands for extensive foreplay. The sex ultimately leads to intercourse, and the already very stimulated man does not require much time to come.
Finally, Penny goes to work, and reaps the benefits of her lessons. This is the hottest scene on the DVD, with just about every technique for hand jobs she describes, oral and intercourse in several different positions. They even do a 69, with Penny working her hands on the guy’s dick, while he eats her out – another myth busted if you thought that the 69 position only meant both partners going down on each other at the same time.
These sex scenes are very informative, as well as entertaining to watch because of the extreme close ups during the hand job portion of the sexual activity. During the scenes, Penny pops up from time to time with instructions tips either as a graphic on the screen or as a voiceover. There is an option on the menu to view the scenes without instructions, but they’re really helpful the first time around, even if they’re sometimes jarring.
The first part of the DVD with the workshop is set up like a tongue-in-cheek infomercial, which actually fooled me for a while, as I wondered if I had the right DVD – if it was a tease to have to get something else in order to get to the good stuff. Fortunately, this motif stopped after a while. The mini-feature on safer sex was excellent, showing actual demonstrations on how to properly use items like dental dams, and how to modify a latex glove to use on one’s tongue during oral sex.
This is really a great DVD for exploring all aspects of hand jobs. Whether you want to incorporate your digits into foreplay, or do and entire hand job from start to finish, this is definitely the definitive instructional guide.
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